Sydney Nov 2011
Weather hot, balmy
This time of year near me there is an event called sculptures by the sea where a large number of sculptures are installed on the rocks between a pathway that runs between Bronte Beach and Bondi beach. (www.sculpturebythesea.com).
This pathway is sublimely beautiful twenty minute walk and even before the artworks arrive. Waves crash in over jagged rocks in a constantly changing series of mini vistas linking little beaches.
Now the thing is that many people who live in beachside suburbs hate that other people come to use their beaches and their surrounding coastlands. Beaches are supposed to be empty according to the narrative and narcissists who like their bodies brown and well shaped like to work out in peace. No group is more aggressive in the protection of their rights to have complete freedom to dominate the coastal pathways that have been built with community funds (their rates) than the joggers, who insist on maintaining their speed no matter what, so when for three weeks every year people are mowed down when the pursuit of the perfect body clashes with the lingering look.
We await the outcome of this clash of civilisation.
I had an email from a dear friend who came to Sydney as part of a small group with an Iranian film in 1986 (The Runner, Director Amir Naderi). She had returned to visit her family but months had past and I had received only one short email saying that computers were hard to get to. In my paranoia I began to worry that she was trapped there I went to her house to try and find some news of her. She lives in a part of Sydney where women mostly wear least the hijhab, many the burga and even men are dressed in medieval Islamic costumes. Station wagons driven by Muslim women with children and scant regard for the speed limit, as they negotiate their lives on phones. The young ones in pairs drive even faster texting, seemingly without looking, as they overtake on the inside down dusty streets.
I get to the house the garden is dry and overgrown my anxiety increases. My friend had transformed the small rundown wooden house into a beautiful haven with a garden that was an Oasis. Now I have paranoia 101 ‘they’ have knocked her off in Iran and stolen her identity and now they have her house. I knock. No answer, I hear movement. No answer. I knock again. “Who is it?” calls a heavily accented voice. “Hello” I call out. The door unlocks and opens. A bearded man looks around it. “ I am looking for Beh’Naz”, I say. “She is in Iran”, he says.
He tells me she will be back in October but when I turn 65 on November the 8th and I think who I want to come to my birthday lunch I realise Beh’naz is still not back. I call her house, her mobile phone, I text her, I deposit $50 in her bank with a note for her to call me, I email her. I am now really concerned. I realise I don’t know her daughters phone number or address. I remember she had a fried Nas’ran whose husband worked for Qantas. I call them. They think I am mad. I plan to drive back to her house and talk to the bearded man again. What if she has just died, maybe the cancer came back. Maybe this is what happens when we have friends who live in other parts of the world they just disappear and that’s that. Finito. No more. No good byes. Just no more.
I turn on my computer check the stock market stupidity for the day then the emails and there at the top of the list is an enquiry from Jos about a piece while at the bottom of the list is an email from Beh’naz.
She is returning Dec 9 to pack up and sell her house. Her mum is dying, her sister is sick, her brother is tired of looking after them on his own and she thinks that a small house in a village in Iran might suit her just fine.
Stephen O’R